Polyamory & Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)

Polyamorous & Consensual Non-Monogamy Counseling | Marina Edelman, LMFT

I offer Polyamorous & Consensual Non-Monogamy Couples Counseling in person in Westlake Village and around the California area via Telehealth. Love looks different for everyone, and there is no one-size-fits-all way to build connection. For individuals and partners practicing polyamory or other forms of consensual non-monogamy (CNM), therapy offers a supportive space to explore boundaries, communication, and emotional balance. My approach is affirming, informed, and rooted in respect for autonomy, consent, and transparency.

A Modern, Accessible Approach

Telehealth-First Flexibility
I provide virtual and hybrid sessions for individuals, couples, and polycules anywhere in California. Online counseling allows multiple partners to join from different locations and makes therapy easier to integrate into busy or blended schedules.

Proactive Relationship Care
Many CNM and polyamorous clients come to therapy not because something is wrong but because they want to strengthen their relationship systems. I offer “pre-crisis” support for:

Opening up a relationship and navigating first-time transitions
Polycule alignment and boundary-setting
Managing new relationship energy (NRE) while maintaining existing bonds
Recalibration sessions to rebuild trust or address jealousy

Therapy is a space to clarify needs and expectations while preserving authenticity and care.

Affirmative Therapy for Complex Dynamics

CNM relationships often involve intersecting emotional layers and evolving agreements. In therapy, I help partners:

Create and maintain relationship agreements
Address jealousy, insecurity, and compersion
Manage time and emotional energy across multiple relationships
Balance autonomy with shared responsibility
Support neurodiverse or LGBTQ+ members within polycules
Process breaches of trust and repair connection

I aim to provide a space where every partner feels validated and heard.

Using Technology to Strengthen Communication

I use encourage structured communication between sessions. Many clients benefit from journaling prompts, messaging check-ins, and shared digital calendars to manage time and emotional energy.

Accessible Care for California’s CNM Community

I am proud to serve the CNM and polyamorous community across California, particularly in areas where affirming therapy can be difficult to find. Whether you are exploring an open relationship, deepening emotional communication, or redefining your version of love, therapy can help you do so with clarity and compassion. Virtual counseling, online therapy, and telehealth appointments are available for individuals and couples anywhere in California.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is polyamory counseling/consensual non-monogamy therapy and how does it work?

It’s therapy that supports open or multi-partner relationships through communication, boundaries, and emotional clarity.

Can therapy help us open our relationship safely?

Yes, therapy guides you through conversations about readiness, agreements, and emotional safety.

How can we handle jealousy or insecurity in polyamory?

We use emotion-regulation tools and self-awareness techniques to reduce jealousy and strengthen trust.

Do you work with solo poly or relationship anarchists?

Yes, all forms of ethical non-monogamy are welcome and affirmed.

Can polyamory counseling be done online?

Yes, we offer secure telehealth sessions for polyamorous, CNM, and open relationships across California.

Who is Marina Edelman?

Marina Edelman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Westlake Village, California. She specializes in helping individuals, couples, and families improve their emotional well-being and relationship dynamics. Drawing from advanced training in the Gottman Method and other evidence-based therapies, Marina supports clients facing challenges like anxiety, communication breakdowns, financial boundary issues, and life transitions. She offers both in-person and virtual sessions for clients across California.

What types of clients does Marina Edelman serve?

Marina Edelman provides therapy for individuals, couples, and families. This includes one-on-one counseling for adults, relationship counseling for couples (married or not), and therapy for family units looking to improve communication and resolve conflicts.

How can I schedule an appointment with Marina Edelman?

You can schedule an appointment by contacting Marina Edelman’s office via phone or through her website’s online booking system. She even offers a free 15-minute initial consultation to discuss your needs and how she can help before you commit to a full session. This allows you to ask questions and ensure she’s a good fit for you before beginning therapy.

What areas does Marina Edelman serve?

Marina Edelman is based in Westlake Village, California. She serves clients from surrounding areas including Malibu, Calabasas, Thousand Oaks, and Santa Barbara. In addition to in-person sessions, she offers online therapy to individuals and couples across California, so you can work with her remotely if you’re not in the local area.

What types of clients does Marina Edelman serve?

Marina Edelman, MA, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Gottman Level 3 certified clinician, provides compassionate in-person therapy in Westlake Village, Calabasas, Malibu, Thousand Oaks, and Santa Barbara, with secure online telehealth and virtual counseling available throughout California.